Top 5 Beginner Anal Toys (And How to Use Them Safely)
Curious about exploring anal play but unsure where to begin? You’re not alone. Anal pleasure is a growing area of interest across all genders and orientations, but it comes with plenty of questions—especially for beginners. The right toy can make your experience more enjoyable, more comfortable, and easier to control. Whether you’re flying solo or playing with a partner, here are best types of beginner-friendly anal toys to consider when getting started.
1. Slim Silicone Plugs
These are often the first step for people new to anal play. A slim, tapered plug made of body-safe silicone offers gentle pressure with an easy entry shape, giving you time to get familiar with the sensations. Always look for plugs with a wide base to prevent slipping, and be sure to pair with a generous amount of lube.
Why we recommend it:
Soft silicone is forgiving, easy to clean, and ideal for sensitive skin.
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2. Beaded Toys with Graduated Sizes
Anal beads can be a great way to learn what feels good to you. They typically start small and increase in size, giving you control over depth and intensity. Many beginners find pleasure in the feeling of slowly removing the beads during climax.
Why we recommend it:
Graduated sizing helps you pace yourself and find your comfort zone.
Find anal beads designed to match your pace and curiosity.
Men.com Graduate Beaded Anal Trainer Kit
This trio of silicone spheres lets you work your way up at your own pace. Start with the short and thick, gradually progress to the medium, and eventually earn your diploma with the satisfyingly full-feeling long plug.
$79.99
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3. Your Own Fingers
Sometimes the best beginner toy isn’t a toy at all. Using your fingers—paired with a generous amount of lube—can be one of the most intuitive and low-pressure ways to explore anal sensation. Fingers offer natural control over depth, pressure, and pace, making them ideal for getting familiar with how your body responds.
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4. Vibrating Butt Plugs
Vibration introduces a whole new dimension of pleasure. For beginners, low-intensity vibrating plugs can be a way to experiment without needing to thrust or insert deeply. Many vibrating plugs come with remote controls, which adds an element of surprise or partner play.
Why we recommend it:
Combines pressure and vibration for a customizable experience.
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B-Vibe Vibrating Snug Plug 2
With dual points of stimulation and powerful vibrations, the b-Vibe Vibrating Snug Plug 2 teases your anal sweet spots for knee-trembling pleasure.
$104.99
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5. Scaling Size Anal Toy Kits
These kits include a range of anal toys in gradually increasing sizes, allowing users to explore at their own pace. Starting with smaller plugs and working up to larger ones, these kits help build comfort and confidence while expanding anal play possibilities.
Why we recommend it:
Perfect for beginners and experienced players alike who want a safe, gradual way to explore different sensations and stretch levels.
Fantasy For Her Little Gems Trainer Set
The Little Gems Trainer Set lets you start small (we're talking petite plug small) and work your way up to bigger gems at your own pace.
$49.99
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No matter which toy you reach for, what makes anal play successful—especially at the beginning—is how you prepare. Using a body-safe anal lubricant, a reliable toy cleaner, and starting slow with communication and curiosity lays the groundwork for comfort and pleasure. These basics aren’t just helpful—they’re essential. Equip yourself with the right tools and you’ll create space for sensation, exploration, and confidence to grow, one experience at a time.
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