How to Use Sex Furniture: Power, Positions, and Pleasure

Sex furniture is most fun when it stops being “a prop” and starts being part of the fantasy. This guide focuses on how to use your pieces (specific positions, roleplays, and scenes) using products and collections from Amazing Intimate Essentials.

How to think about sex furniture (beyond the product page)

Before getting into positions, it helps to frame each piece in your mind:

• Support furniture (cushions, benches, lounges, door swings) = comfort, angles, and access.
• Kink furniture (obedience benches, oral thrones) = structure for power dynamics, service, and restraint.

Ask for each item: “What body part is supported, and what fantasy does that make easier?”

Bedroom Bliss Contoured Love Cushion: deeper angles & easier oral

Bedroom Bliss Contoured Love Cushion

Raise your standards and level up your expectations; this high-density foam cushion is here to deliver the support you've been craving and didn't know was missing from your life. Instead of piling up pillows on your bed, give yourself something that holds up under pressure!

$334.99

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This contoured cushion is essentially a precision tool for hip and back support.

Positions to try

• Elevated Missionary
  • Receiver’s hips rest on the highest part of the cushion, back supported along the slope.
  • Giver kneels or stands at the edge of the bed.
  • Result: deeper penetration with less pressure on the receiver’s lower back and on the giver’s knees.
• Lazy Doggy
  • Receiver lies face‑down over the cushion, hips lifted by the contour, chest resting lower.
  • Perfect for slow, rocking thrusts without a hard arch in the spine.
  • Great for anal play too, because it gives clearer access and control.
• Oral on a Platter
  • Receiver lies on their back, hips on the cushion, pelvis tilted toward their partner.
  • Giver kneels between their legs at a comfortable height for extended oral without neck strain.

Fantasy ideas

• “I’m your favorite view” – receiver fully displayed, knowing the lifted pelvis angle makes them the focus.
• Power flip – the person on the cushion chooses when to pull a partner in with their legs or push them away.

Bedroom Bliss Love Bench: straddles, spankings & power play

Bedroom Bliss Love Bench

Enjoy longer scenes and more comfortable kink with this Love Bench! Designed so your torso and lower limbs are fully supported but cushioned at the same time.

$669.99

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The Love Bench is a low, padded platform that’s perfect for straddling, bending, and kneeling.

Positions to try

• Bench Cowgirl
  • Receiver sits or kneels on the bench, partner sits behind or below (on floor or edge of bed).
  • Great for grinding and rocking—no soft mattress to fight against.
• Over‑the‑Bench Doggy
  • Receiver bends over the bench, chest supported, feet on the floor.
  • Partner stands behind for penetration or strap‑on play.
  • Bench takes the weight off wrists and shoulders, making longer scenes easier.
• Kneeling Service
  • One partner sits on the bench, legs parted.
  • The other kneels on the floor between their thighs for oral, hand play, or toy worship.

Fantasy ideas

• “Interview chair” – Dominant sits on the bench, submissive kneels between their knees answering questions.
• “Punishment station” – bench becomes the designated spot for spankings, plug insertions, or edging.

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Fetish Fantasy Inflatable Position Master: grab handles, change angles

Fetish Fantasy Series Inflatable Position Master

Indulge in your wildest fantasies with this Inflatable Position Master. The slanted, flocked design allows you to relax in any position without sliding off, while the EZ-Grip love handles are perfect for maintaining difficult positions without losing your rhythm.

$44.99

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The Position Master is all about leverage and control thanks to its built‑in handles.

Positions to try

• Assisted Doggy
  • Receiver hugs the cushion under their hips or waist.
  • They grab the handles for stability while their partner moves behind.
  • The handles let the receiver pull back or brace when things get intense.
• Riding Support
  • Giver lies on their back; receiver sits on top with the cushion behind their lower back.
  • Handles help the receiver stabilize as they bounce or grind.
• Side‑Lying Closer
  • Both partners on their sides; Position Master supports the top partner’s leg.
  • Great for slower, more intimate thrusting or toy play with extra hip support.

Fantasy ideas

• “Take the reins” – the person on the cushion uses the handles to literally control the depth and pace.
• Rough‑but‑safe – high‑energy thrusts feel safer when there’s something solid to grip.

Fetish Fantasy Deluxe Fantasy Door Swing: gravity‑assisted positions

Fetish Fantasy Series Deluxe Fantasy Door Swing

The Fetish Fantasy Deluxe Door Swing isn’t your typical playground swing, but it will be your new favorite. This swing has a padded seat, as well as rests for both hands and feet. The best part is that there’s no need to damage your doorframes or walls, since this swing operates without screws or permanent mounts of any kind.

$84.99

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This door swing harnesses gravity and suspension without permanent hardware.

Positions to try

• Upright Cradle
  • Receiver sits in the lower straps, back against the door, feet in the foot loops.
  • Partner stands between their legs for penetration or oral.
  • Receiver can lean back and relax; swing supports most of their weight.
• Spread‑Leg Display
  • Adjust foot loops higher to lift the legs.
  • Partner standing or kneeling has direct access to genitals and inner thighs.
  • Ideal for toy teasing, edging, or impact play on thighs and butt.
• Back‑to‑Chest Ride
  • Receiver in the swing, partner stands behind, chest‑to‑back, using hands and mouth.
  • Very sensual, great for full‑body caressing while being supported.

Fantasy ideas

• “Pinned against the door” – consensual fantasy of being “taken” without being able to fall or slip.
• Floating throne – receiver becomes the center of attention, literally suspended at their partner’s height.

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Master Series Kinky Couch: building entire scenes around a lounge

Master Series Kinky Couch Detachable Sex Chaise Lounge

Want a sex dungeon at home but don't have the floor room to spare? This kinky sex chaise lounge breaks down into two pieces so you can store it when not in use. Tuck it away in a room, closet, or storage. Never stress about fitting that couch through the tight hallway, stairwell or door again!

$1,194.99

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The Kinky Couch is your scene anchor—a sculpted chaise that can host whole storylines.

Positions to try

• Reclining Royalty
  • One partner lounges back along the curve, legs parted.
  • The other kneels on the floor for oral, toy play, or massage.
  • The chaise keeps the receiver open and comfortable, with the giver perfectly positioned.
• Over‑the‑Curve Doggy
  • Receiver kneels or leans over the highest point.
  • Partner stands or kneels at the lower side for penetration or impact play.
  • Body weight is supported by the curve, taking pressure off knees and wrists.
• Face‑to‑Face Cradle
  • Partners sit facing each other, one higher than the other along the curve.
  • Great for grinding, eye contact, kissing, and mutual toy use.

Fantasy ideas

• “The chaise as a throne” – Dominant always sits or reclines on the Kinky Couch; submissive presents themselves there for inspection or pleasure.
• “Showtime” – couch becomes the stage for stripteases, toy demonstrations, or guided masturbation scenes.

Master Series Obedience Extreme Sex Bench: structured obedience & impact

Master Series Obedience Extreme Sex Bench

Act out dark fantasies or prepare for intense impact play scenes when you strap your lover into the Obedience Extreme Sex Bench. This heavy-duty piece of sex furniture is made of sturdy steel, with comfortable padding for the body, legs, arms, and head of your partner so that you can play vigorously for hours. Keep your sub helpless and at your mercy!

$939.99

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The Obedience Extreme Bench is purpose‑built for control, exposure, and impact.

Positions to try

• Locked‑Down Doggy
  • Submissive kneels or bends over the bench, chest supported, hips elevated.
  • Attach cuffs or rope to built‑in anchors (if present) at wrists and ankles.
  • Dominant has full access for spanking, paddles, anal play, plugs, or penetration.
• Inspection Pose
  • Submissive kneels on the bench, back arched, head down.
  • Dominant circles, touches, teases, and decides how the scene will progress.
  • Great for “orders and obedience” dynamics.
• Edging Station
  • Submissive restrained on the bench while the dominant uses toys or hands.
  • Focus on building them to the edge and backing off repeatedly.

Fantasy ideas

• “Punishment bench” – bench is only used when rules are broken; walking to it becomes part of the headspace.
• “Display furniture” – submissive is arranged on the bench before others enter the room (for couples who enjoy being watched or doing shows at home).

Master Series Pleasure Throne Oral Sex Chair: queening, kinging & worship

Master Series Pleasure Throne Oral Sex Chair

The Master Series Pleasure Throne Oral Sex Chair is designed so the receiving partner can lie or sit beneath a supportive seat with an opening, while the giving partner sits above. It’s built to: elevate the sitter in a comfortable, supported position (no deep squats required); keep the partner providing oral in an ergonomically safer spot, with clearer breathing space through the opening; and create a strong visual of service, worship, and power exchange: literally placing one partner “on the throne.”

$849.99

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The Pleasure Throne is a dedicated oral sex and face‑sitting chair—perfect for queening/kinging dynamics.

Positions to try

• Classic Queening
  • Receiver sits or kneels on the seat over the opening.
  • Giver lies or sits below, face aligned with the opening for oral.
  • Chair supports the top partner, making long sessions realistic.
• Reverse Throne
  • Receiver faces away from the giver’s face (back to chest).
  • Offers a more anonymous, objectifying feel if desired.
• Throne + Toys
  • Receiver on the throne, giving partner uses toys (vibrators, suction toys, plugs) from beneath or from the side.
  • Great for extended edging, worship, and “I’m in charge of how much you get” scenes.

Fantasy ideas

• “Worship at my throne” – the chair is only used when the dominant wants oral service.
• “You don’t get to move” – receiver sits comfortably, but the giver must hold position underneath until released.

Putting it together: building a full scene using multiple pieces

You can chain furniture together into a single night:

• Start on the Bedroom Bliss Contoured Love Cushion
  • Warm‑up massages, oral, or slow missionary with better angles.
• Move to the Bedroom Bliss Love Bench
  • Over‑the‑bench doggy, spanking, or hand‑held toy play.
• Graduate to the Fetish Fantasy Door Swing or Position Master
  • Try something more dynamic and gravity‑assisted once everyone is aroused and warmed up.
• End at the Obedience Bench or Pleasure Throne
  • Close the night with a more intense obedience or oral‑service scene.

This progression moves from comfort and exploration to more intense, structured power dynamics in a way that feels natural and consensual.