Eight Crazy Nights: Bringing You and Your Partner Closer For the Holidays
The holidays are a time for the whole family to bond, but they’re also a time to cozy up to your partner and remember how much they turn you on. However, as much as this time should remind us of our gratitude for our partners, the stress can sometimes take over everything. It makes you feel more distant than ever from each other, fizzling out that flame until holiday sex is the last thing on your mind.
If you feel that your desire has been dampened, we’ve compiled a fun challenge to ensure that you get some spicy play no matter what. After all, it’s the gift you deserve most!
1. Turn your bedroom into a holiday-themed oasis
Transform your bedroom into a spa with some Christmas spirit. Get in the mood by candlelight with these massage candles that smell like sumptuous sandalwood and vanilla. They feature elegant 24k gold decor in a shot glass votive, transporting you to a five-star hotel and giving you a dreamy reprieve from all the hustle and bustle of the season. Rub the soft and warm coconut oil all over your partner from head to toe, and consider adding a blindfold to the mix for some unexpected sensory pleasure.
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2. Play dress up
The best present you can unwrap during the holidays is your partner. A sexy Mrs. Claus outfit is the hottest holiday-themed bodysuit or lingerie set that shows off all the right assets. Another great option is a pair of fishnet thigh-highs, which can also be worn beyond the holiday season. They can be paired with a sizzler like this Mrs. Claus set or worn on their own for a more revealing look—no unwrapping required. Beyond the standard bodysuit, lingerie dresses made with fishnet and lace are a much steamier alternative to your average babydoll and will have the watcher salivating over what’s underneath.
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3. Get cozy with a festive getaway and experiment
Whether you’re just sending the kids to stay with family for the weekend, are staying at a cozy cottage, or have booked a tropical getaway, a trip is the perfect time to experience it. There’s nothing hotter than vacation sex, and according to this statistic, people consider themselves to be more experimental when they go away with a partner. Get impulsive and some new things with a sexy advent calendar like The Couples Advent-Ure Calendar, which hides a seductive surprise under 24 flaps.
4. Have a steamy photoshoot and make a gift album for the holidays
You can hire a professional boudoir photographer or go DIY with some sensual selfies for a memorable photo album that will give your significant other goosebumps whenever they open turn the pages. Take some tasteful lingerie shots or leave nothing to the imagination with some fully nude shots that will drop their jaw to the floor. You can even turn it into a collaboration and make a sexy album posing together, which could make for some incredible foreplay.
5. Forget decorating the house – decorate each other this season
Instead of decorating a Christmas tree or indulging in a gingerbread house this season, decorate each other with edible goodies like this flavored oral delight gel and lick the sugary goodness off each other.
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Eating sweets off your lover is so much more satisfying. You can experiment with edible body paint, chocolate sauce, whipped cream, and sprinkles. Skip the candy canes and opt for a minty arousal gel for nipples instead. |
6. Surprise them with some frisky gifts
Up your holiday sex game with a gift that keeps on giving, like these unique pheromone colognes. Our bodies naturally secrete pheromones, which can trigger a sexual response that’s almost animalistic at times. Filled with aromas like citrus, cedarwood, and bergamot, this spray will imbue your partner with a scent that’ll make you want to rip their clothes off, so be careful when and where you apply them! For a bit more of a splurge, consider a Couples Kit, which has plenty of pleasure-inducing treats for both parties.
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It's A Vibe Couples Kit This pleasure-packed bundle brimming with everything you need for a blissful bedroom escapade, minus the pesky clothing. |
7. Plan a holiday-themed date night with a perfectly sexy ending
Although you can always dress up and splurge on cocktails or go to a restaurant, there are lots of date night ideas right in your backyard. Set up a lounge area in your backyard or at a nearby park with some flameless candles, pillows, and plenty of blankets for a good old-fashioned make-out session. You can even fire up some s’mores, pop some champagne, or make some boozy eggnog. If it’s too cold for some outdoor fun, bring that intimate vibe back inside the bedroom whenever you’re ready. Wearable panty vibrators can even let you get frisky while fully clothed.
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8. Unwind with a holiday-themed bath bomb and some water play
Taking a bath is so relaxing during chilly days, and it becomes even more relaxing when you’re wrapped up in your partner. Many toys nowadays are waterproof, letting you take those orgasms underwater, whether it’s for mutual masturbation or penetration. Make your aquatic adventures even better with some silicone lubricant, which won’t be washed away by water. If you don’t have a tub or don’t like baths, lube and toys can also be used for some standing shower holiday sex action.
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To wrap things up
It can also be hard to find a romantic moment alone amid dinners, family spending the night, and all the other commitments during the holiday season. But finding the time to cherish your partner and rekindle that chemistry is so important. While the holidays are all about bringing everyone together, they should also be an exciting time that you can celebrate with your partner — in naughty ways that you wouldn’t celebrate with anyone else.
