Take Your Pleasure Anywhere With a Hands-Free Vibrator

Ever wish that your hands were free during sex or masturbation so you could take your pleasure to new heights? A hands-free vibrator can be used to experiment with a range of sexual activities (solo and partnered). Have some discreet public naughtiness or connect with each other from miles away. We’re going to cover tons of ways to get creative with these innovative pleasure products, but first, let’s cover the basics.

What is a hands-free vibrator?

A hands-free vibrator is a sex toy that provides external or internal stimulation to different erogenous zones without the need for holding the toy in place. It can be used to pleasure the G-spot, prostate, or different parts of the vulva. Some are inserted anally or vaginally to penetrate, while others settle into underwear or a harness to stimulate. Some remote-controlled vibrating panties are held in place with a magnet, and others stay secure from their conforming shape like the Link Paige Panty Vibe.

Panty Vibes are contoured to the shape of the vulva and can simply be slid into your panties without needing hands to keep it in place. There are even some like the Nu Sensuelle Pleasure Panty which comes with a pair of panties, making this the perfect sexy gift.

App controlled vibrator vs remote-controlled vibrator - what’s the difference?

App-controlled vibrators and sex toys are operated via a connected smartphone app, such as the Bluetooth-enabled Lovense Lush 3 which comes with a matching app that allows unique features like syncing vibrations to music. They can be controlled from an unlimited distance since the toy and the phone are connected to Bluetooth or Wi-Fi. A remote-controlled vibrator, however, has a physical remote and will only function from a few meters away. These are perfect for taking a public dinner date to the next level with some discreet under-the-table stimulation.

Hands-free fun during solo and partnered play

With a hands-free vibrator, your hands are free to roam, making it the perfect solo vibrator. This allows you to explore your other erogenous zones simultaneously, taking you over the edge with multiple sensations. Remote-controlled vibrating panties are ideal for solo play. You can even place the toy in your panties and lie on your stomach on a pillow if you enjoy the sensation of humping or grinding.

For partnered play, using a toy like a vibrating cock ring that targets the clitoris or a c-shaped vibrator during sex can help close the orgasm gap, allowing couples to experience the rare simultaneous orgasm.

And if you’re short on time and want to have a satisfying quickie, you can even place a panty vibrator onto the clitoris during penetration!

Don’t want to use toys during sex? Try them out during foreplay instead by massaging, kissing or licking erogenous zones while the couple’s vibrator is on.

C-shaped and U-shaped vibrators both provide dual stimulation, internally targeting the G-spot and the clitoris at the same time. This can lead to a blended orgasm - with or without a partner. Many of these toys are fully adjustable so you can find the perfect fit and have the perfect climax.

Hands-free anal toys like the Satisfyer Plug-Ilicious 2 can help you explore prostate play and pegging in your relationship. For people with vulvas, inserting an anal plug like the Satisfyer Plug-Ilicious 2 during sex can be a fun intro to double penetration. When you’re right at the edge, have your partner use the app to up the intensity, making for a finale you’ll never forget. In terms of solo play, controlling an anal vibrator manually can be difficult, so having access to a remote control or an app can make it much easier to control.

Don’t miss out on gender-neutral vibrators like the dual-motor Gender X Velvet Hammer, which can be worn vaginally or anally. One end has a thrusting motor, while the other provides external stimulation on the clitoris or perineum. It’s even waterproof, so your partner can make a naughty splash by controlling it from the other room.

Discreet public play

For some people, there’s nothing hotter than the idea of getting caught. But for others, having public sex can require tricky logistics and even legal consequences based on where you’re getting down and dirty. The secret to avoiding indecent exposure? Don’t expose yourself at all! Panty vibrators, insertable egg vibrators, and c-shaped vibrators can discreetly (and comfortably) be worn at a bar, restaurant, or party, letting you watch your partner try to hide their writhing and moans as you control their pleasure.

Explore power play with submissive and dominant roles

A hands-free vibrator (Bluetooth or remote-controlled) is a fantastic opportunity to explore power play in your relationship. With a remote-controlled vibrator, you’ll need to be in the same room, but with app-controlled toys, you can control the toys from any distance.

You can explore power play via:

Dominance and control:

Let one partner take control of the other’s pleasure, controlling a c-shaped toy, Bluetooth or remote-controlled vibrating panties, or a wearable butt plug as the other partner delivers vibrations and patterns. The wearer will be in constant suspense because they don’t know when the vibrations will start. You can intensify this dynamic even more by wearing the toy out of the house when running errands or going out.

Edging and teasing:

Forced orgasm (with consent, of course) is a hot way to explore power play with your partner. The dominant person will control when the person is allowed to orgasm. By bringing them to the edge repeatedly, the final climax will be even more intense for the person wearing the toy.

Bondage:

For couples using remote-controlled or Bluetooth sex toys, hands-free sex toys can be incorporated into a variety of bondage scenarios. One partner can blindfold and tie up or restrain their partner while the dominant controls pleasure with the remote control. Beyond playing with restraints, you can also combine impact play with these toys - the dominant can spank, flog, or whip the partner with one hand while remotely controlling the toy with the other.

Long distance sex toys for couples

Speaking of controlling sex toys from any distance…wearable vibrators are very popular with long distance couples. Thanks to technology and the development of Bluetooth sex toys, we’ve come a long way from love letters. Today, long distance couples can experience intimacy like never before. During phone calls or steamy FaceTime sessions, app-controlled sex toys let your partner bring you orgasms from afar. Also, since they’re app-enabled, you don’t have to worry about misplacing a remote control.

How to clean a hands-free vibrator

Safety is sexy, and knowing how to clean your sex toys after every use is important for personal hygiene to avoid infections and UTIs. For most non-porous, body-safe toys, you can wash your vibrator with warm water and soap and/or a body-safe sex toy cleaning spray or foaming cleanser like the chemical-free Intimate Earth Green Tea Foaming Toy Cleaner.

You can use a toy cleaner after usage for a quick clean or if you don’t have access to running water, but it’s important to use soap and water regularly at least once a week with regular use if possible.

If the toy isn’t advertised as waterproof or splash-proof, rinse it off rather than fully submerging it. If it’s not water-safe at all (this is rare), stick with wiping it down with a damp and soapy cloth or paper towel. Use a toothbrush to scrub stubborn stains if needed. Wipe the vibrator down with a paper towel or cloth afterward and store it in a cool, dry place.