Sexual Wellness Blog
Sexual Wellness Blog
The Shape of Desire: Sex, Aging, and Menopause
Sexuality isn’t something we age out of—it evolves. For many, menopause (and the years after) marks a meaningful turning point. But it’s not the end of sex or desire.
Unlocking Prostate Pleasure: The Tools & Techniques for a Prostate Orgasm
Learn the tools and techniques that can help you actually achieve a prostate orgasm—sometimes called a “p-gasm.” Think of this as your practical roadmap for unlocking new sensations.
Exploring Deeper: The Top 5 Advanced Anal Toys
Once you’ve explored the basics of anal play, you might find yourself looking for something more. Whether you’re craving deeper pressure, more intense stimulation, or new sensations entirely, advanced anal toys offer a wider range of possibilities.
Top 5 Beginner Anal Toys (And How to Use Them Safely)
Curious about exploring anal play but unsure where to begin? You’re not alone. Anal pleasure is a growing area of interest across all genders and orientations, but it comes with plenty of questions—especially for beginners. The right toy can make your experience more enjoyable, more comfortable, and easier to control. Whether you’re flying solo or playing with a partner, here are best types of beginner-friendly anal toys to consider when getting started.
The Prep Playbook: How to Get Ready for Anal Play
Anal play is a practice of trust, curiosity, and sensation—but before any of that can happen, preparation matters. Whether you're just starting to explore or are refining what you already enjoy, taking the time to learn how to prepare for anal sex can be the difference between a frustrating experience and a pleasurable one. This guide walks you through the process in a way that prioritizes comfort, safety, and agency. We'll cover the physical, emotional, and technical aspects of anal prep, with the gentle reminder that your experience should move at your pace. Why Prep Matters Despite its popularity, anal sex is often misunderstood. Myths around safety, cleanliness, or gender roles can lead to hesitation, especially for those trying anal play for the first time. But when approached thoughtfully, it’s a unique type of pleasure that can feel expansive, full-bodied, and completely worth your attention. Preparation isn't about perfection. It's about giving your body the space to feel safe and responsive. For some, that means starting solo. For others, it's about communicating openly with a partner. And for many, it's about answering the basic question: what does anal feel like when it's done right? The Hygiene Foundation Cleanliness is a part of the ritual for many people, and it doesn't have to become an obstacle. When it comes to anal hygiene, a warm shower and external cleansing are often all you need. Enemas can be used sparingly, but they aren't required every time. The key is listening to your body, not over-complicating the process. Sex toy safety starts here as well. Toys designed for anal play should have a flared base, be made of nonporous materials, and be easy to clean. If you’re wondering how to clean anal sex toys, the answer is simple: warm water, mild soap, and a dedicated toy cleaner when needed. Properly cleaning anal toys after every session is non-negotiable. Alchemy Cleanse Spray Toy Cleaner Aftercare is everything. Alchemy® Cleanse is the no-fuss, no-rinse sex toy cleaner to keep your collection fresh. This fast-drying antimicrobial formula eliminates bacteria while being gentle on your favorite materials. $19.99 Shop Now Relaxation and Readiness A relaxed body is a receptive one. Anal play works best when arousal leads the way, not when you feel pressure to “perform.” Many people find that adding breathing techniques, gentle massage, or even a warm bath beforehand helps their body unwind. Physical openness and mental readiness are equally important here. Starting small helps build confidence. That might mean exploring externally with fingers or working up to inserting a beginner-friendly plug. Anal play for beginners is about training the body to associate these sensations with pleasure, not pain. Beginning with other pleasurable acts, either before or in tandem with gentle anal exploration, is a strong way to build comfort and confidence. Safe Tools and Smart Lube No part of anal prep is more important than choosing the right lubricant. The anus doesn’t self-lubricate, so a high-quality lube isn’t optional—it’s essential. Many experts consider silicone the best lube for anal sex due to its long-lasting glide, though water-based or hybrid options are preferred when using certain toys. If you're not sure how to choose, look for products labeled as anal-safe, and double-check compatibility with your toys. Reapplying lube during longer sessions is part of the process. It’s not a sign something’s going wrong—it’s a way of taking care. We recommend Alchemy’s Blend lubricant—it has all the benefits of both silicone and water-based formulas. It’s great for long sessions and compatible with almost every toy. Intimate Earth Bliss Anal Relaxing Glide 4oz This thick, water-based formula helps you unwind and invites intimate exploration. Infused with natural clove extract, Bliss eases tension without numbing sensation, allowing you to feel every pulse of pleasure. $24.99 Shop Now Equally important is choosing tools that support your body. Flared bases aren't just a suggestion; they are a non-negotiable part of anal sex safety. Without that feature, a toy could slip in too far and require medical attention. Make sure your gear is specifically designed for anal use, and you'll enjoy more peace of mind. Exploring anal play should never feel rushed or mysterious. Learning how to prepare for anal isn't just a technical skill—it’s a form of intimacy that connects you to your body in new ways. If you're ready to explore more, our curated selection of anal toys and accessories has been designed with every comfort level in mind.
Exploring Anal Play: What It Feels Like, How to Start, and What to Use
Anal play is one of the most misunderstood—and most searched—topics in sexual wellness. Whether you're curious, skeptical, or somewhere in between, it’s common to have questions you don’t feel comfortable asking out loud. That’s why we’re opening up the conversation.
The Lube Guide: Choosing Between Water-Based, Silicone, and Hybrid Formulas
When it comes to sex and intimacy, the right lubricant can make all the difference. Whether you're enjoying solo time, connecting with a partner, or incorporating toys, choosing a lube that fits your needs—texture, duration, sensitivity—makes everything feel better.
The Best Beginner Sex Toys (and How to Choose Yours)
Whether you're shopping for yourself, exploring with a partner, or choosing your very first toy, entering the world of pleasure products can feel overwhelming. The good news? It doesn’t have to be.
